Monday, March 26, 2007

Gas Price Gouging






With prices like this, who can afford to drive in California?!?! SF gas prices, averaging 3.29 per gallon for regular unleaded gas, are now the highest in the nation. Maybe I will have to reconsider getting a hybrid after all.

Standard reasons from oil companies to explain the price hike: crude oil prices going up... refinery problems... getting ready for the summer months... and more BS!

Sunday, March 25, 2007

Some Wounds Just Won't Go Away

Everyone says time can heal everything, but I think some wounds just won't go away. Well, it may heal in a way so that you're not hurting all the time, but there will always be a scar. And, the deeper the wounder, the fatter and uglier the scar. There's no turning back time. What's happened has happened. There's nothing we can do about it. And, there's no point in thinking about the past coz I can't change it no matter what I do now. Right now, all I can do is look forward and think of ways minimize the scar and move on with life, trying to prevent the same thing from recurring in the future. Plastic surgery can alter the appearance, but it doesn't change the fact that the scar was there at one point. I guess not have to deal with the scar on a daily basis is still a good thing.

Logic tells me to stop thinking about it, but logic and emotions aren't mutually exclusive. Just coz I know I shouldn't be hurting doesn't mean I can make the pain go away. Oh well, I'll just have to let this round of emotional roller roaster run its course...

Sorry, no details here.

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

An Explosion at Home

Maybe it's coincidence, maybe I'm just a hopeless klutz. It seems like something always goes wrong on the first day he's gone... Last time, I got a fever the night he left for Seattle, and today, I sprained my ankle and blew up an egg in the microwave. My mom had tried to warn me about the egg.... but I just stupid enough to heat it for so long. I don't mind wiping up the sides, but why do the egg white have to be stuck in the metal mesh?!?! I've tried cleaning it out with a toothbrush, but it's stuck good... Oh well, I'll let the mess sit there till I have the energy to clean it all up. In the meantime, I'm just gonna have to leave it alone.

Sunday, March 18, 2007

Time for More Travel?

This has been the most event-packed month I've had in a while... We went to Hawaii from 3/6-3/11, and we've just gotten back from a weekend trip to LA for a wedding.

Hawaii:
The Hawaii trip is the most relaxing vacation we've had in a very, very long time. We've always tried to pack so much sightseeing into our vacations that I've always felt like we need another vacation just to recuperate from it. But, with the lesson from our honeymoon fresh in our minds, we were very mindful of keeping it light for our 6-month anniversary trip. As tempting as it was to do a bit of island-hopping, we decided to stay in O'ahu for 6 days.

The first 3 days at Waikiki was everything (and more than) what we expected. The weather was gorgeous, and the view of the turquoise water from our ocean-view suite was to die for, especially when the upgrade and 2 of the 3 nights were paid for with my hotel points. ;) And, although we are both hopelessly out of shape, we managed to make it through the surfing lesson. The waves at Waikiki were gentle enough that we were able to stand up and feel our first waves. But, gosh, paddling to the wave sure is hard work!

With the rain and strong wind, the North Shore and Windward side of the island aren't nearly as nice as Waikiki, but Matsumoto Shave Ice, Giovanni's Shrimp Truck, and the Polynesian Cultural Center are definitely worth the yucky weather. (I'll chat more about the shave ice and shrimp later.) Speaking of the Polynesian Cultural Center, I think their operation model is definitely worth mentioning. Essentially all of the performers and workers at the PCC are students from the Polynesian islands, who are working at the PCC and learning about their own culture, while getting a fully-funded education at BYU, Hawaii. Although I do not agree with the teachings of the Mormon church, I think it's really admirable for them to help these students go to college, while keeping their cultures alive. Without the funding, these students wouldn't have been able to get a higher education and would have probably turned their backs on their cultural roots.













LA:

This was the most elaborate wedding we've ever been to. The ceremony was in the beautiful Japanese Garden of the Pasadena Ritz Carlton. I wished I could hear the reverend and the music better, but the setting was very romantic. The reception was beautifully done in the courtyard, and that was followed by a lavish lunch in the Georgian Room. The couple had prepared a photo booth for their guests to take pictures of themselves for the guest book, which was really a scrap book. And, there was a Nintendo Wii to keep the kids entertained. In addition to all that, the groom performed a beautiful concerto with his friends from Cal Tech. Oh, and did I mention one of the prizes from the bouquet/garter tossing game was a brand new Nintendo Wii? As if that wasn't enough... the couple had also organized a Chinese banquet at night for their guests to enjoy themselves...

After almost 2 weeks of traveling, I felt a sudden urge to flip through my smugmug site tonight, even though I really should be cleaning up the house... And, I realize how much I had gained in my leave of absence last year. I may have complained about being lonely and homesick, but the experience of living in a different country was worth every bit of the 6-month loss of salary. I've learned so much more than from just working, and what better time to travel than when I'm young? Besides, the 6 months off didn't affect my career progression at all. But, so what if I don't move up the corporate ladder as quickly? What's in career if I don't really care about what I'm doing anyway? Although I'm a bit concerned about the mortgage, I think I'll take the next opportunity to go abroad with him when it comes up. I'm still not sure if I ever want to be a mom, but if I were to be one, I better do as much exploring as I can before I'm completely tied down with responsibilities.

Friday, March 02, 2007

Snow-capped Mountains in San Jose

... are now gone. Gone before I had a chance to take a good picture of them. It has indeed gotten so much warmer over night that most of the snow has melted away. OK, so they are really hills at best, but it was still good while it lasted. I know my friends on the east coast would think I'm crazy for liking snow so much. But, snow has the magical power of making everything prettier and more interesting, hiding all the flaws with a white powder. Kinda like how make-up helps. I agree that snow can cause a lot of inconvenience, but it sure is pretty when you look at it from afar. And, on top of all that, it reminded me of the first time I saw those snow-capped hills when he and I first set foot on Tuscany Hills last year. Who would have thought we would actually settle there...

As I was getting to my car this morning, I thought to myself... what if this were all a dream? What if none of this were real? Everything has been so perfect. True, I complain every now and then, but that's just human nature. God has been showering me with blessings for as long as I can remember. And, sometimes that makes me feel bad for not having done anything in return. Though I know that His love for me is unconditional, we should never take anything for granted. Maybe... I'll do something about that this year. :P